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Please Take Care of John

Hey kids, it’s Dad. For today’s Tommylog, I need to talk about my childhood friend Meredith. Today is her funeral and my heart is heavy. Such a loss, such a loss, such a loss!


Today’s video is a reflection on our interaction and one charge she gave me while she was battling her first round of cancer… “Tommy, please take care of John.”


I’m honored to have this job, but it scares me. What do I do? What do I say…how do I start…when is too much?


I know the Lord will guide me here…someone has to… there are no books on this kinda job.


Meredith, I know I will see you again! You are in good hands…
Now I have to make sure John is also!


**Till we meet again!**

Sometimes the Funny Man Cries

Hey, kids, it’s Dad. Today I want to talk about my good friend John and the things I have learned as he dealt with a personal tragedy in his life. John just lost his dear mother to cancer and I’m lucky enough to have been in his circle of friends to be there along with his journey. John is one of the funniest people I know but this week I saw a different side of him. I saw pain, I saw sadness and I saw tears. I saw a side of him I have never seen in the past 25+ years. Sometimes even the funniest of people cry and you need to know how to handle that. It caught me off guard at first, and I’m thankful I was there. There to help comfort and help maybe be some relief from a super painful moment. No one is ever prepared for the loss of a loved one.

John thank you. Thank you for allowing me in the circle and for showing me a different side of you.

Kids – we all need to be a little more like John. This world needs more people like John in it!