On this memorial day here in the US, I can’t help but think about those who put their country first and gave the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. I can say only one thing — THANK YOU!
Tag: death
TommyLog – Reverence for the Fallen
Having respect and a reverence for those who have put themselves before others is so important. A Facebook posting this week really hit home for me. The post was about how she had a body of a fallen solder on her plane and how the the body was deplaned before any of the passengers. That really hit me hard as a humbling experience.
Took me back to an experience I had visiting ground zero at the world trade center plaza just 5 weeks after the 9/11 terrorist attacks.
I’m So Sorry, It’s My Loss
Went to pay respects to the Lang family and especially Jess Dennis who lost her brother last week. As i waited in line, which ran out the door at time, I was just empty with what to say? What do you say in a time of tragedy like that? I had no clue. I was really stumped. I guess just having me stop over was all the words I needed to say, but you wish you had some grand words to say… then it hit me. I just said “Hi I’m Tommy, I’m sorry for your loss. It’s my loss that I never got to meet Erik.” Bam, done- that’s it. I had never met Jess’s Mom or Dad before and that’s how I did it and it worked fine.
Jessica, I’m so sorry for your loss. I really got nothing. Words can’t take it away, but maybe the hug helped…a little.
TommyLog – There is No Suicide Solution!
This last week, suicide has been in the news and has also hit a bit too close to home. The son off a good friend had a suicide scare. As i’m talking to him, borderline tears, I realize I got nothing. I’m no help what-so-ever. I have never dealt with this issue before and I certainly hope I never have to. Just so tragic all around!
TommyLog – 100 People in Line
Went to pay respects to a long time co-worker who passed away unexpectedly last weekend. When I arrived at the funeral home, there were over 80+ people in line and when I left the line was darn near out the door! What an amazing tribute to a great father, super husband and just all around nice guy! Working with someone for 14 years, you draw close.
I am at such a loss for words. What do you say to the kids and wife? Sadly no hallmark cards do justice. Really makes you think about your own life, legacy and how you act and treat others. Dave was a great example and it showed by the turn out.
Till we meet again David!